Im 14 and Im bullied?

Im a boy and I go to school everyday and i get bullied constantly.Im in top set for every subject. I have many features wrong me such as im short, i have buck teeth, high voice and Im ugly. My self confidence has reached rock bottom. Im just an easy target and most people take the opportunity to make my life hell. Even my best mate makes fun of me sometimes. Everyday I feel like breaking down, i dont know what to do.

Im 14 and Im bullied?
Number one, stop viewing yourself as ugly. People see you as you project yourself to them. Don't be the target, anymore. Everyone is flawed and that's just the way it is. More often than not, those that wish to put you down are trying to detract from their own flaws. You're obviously intelligent, based on your scores at school, focus on that and the rest will come around. Be strong and be the best that you can be for YOU. As far as your best mate, get a new one. Friends don't put you down, they are supposed to lift you up.


Being 14 is a tough age, physically and emotionally, give things time and just be strong. Find someone that you can talk to you, a parent, perhaps, that can help you through this time in your life.
Reply:beat those guys up...hitt them with a book or throw a chair at them
Reply:Home School. Tell a teacher/Parent. Punch them in the FACE!!
Reply:tell a teacher, if you think they will tell the student something to get him mad u should do this instead . . GO UP TO THE PUNY TWERP AND PUNCH HIM RIGHT IN THE FACE. . . OH THATS KINDA SEVERE . . MAYBE YOU SHOULD TELL THEM " i take that as a compliment " if there hurting you physically tell the police . . they will definately handle it!
Reply:just remember,guys like you end up being those bullies boss,just keep that in mind
Reply:Hang in there, kiddo!


Study martial arts and keep those grades up!


You'll probably be the next Bill Gates! :)
Reply:Sounds like you are.
Reply:tell them if they don't leave you alone you are gonna go columbine...thing is this, people mess with you because they think it's free, and maybe up to now it has been, once they get it in their heads that they are gonna have to pay for it in some way or another, they will stop. Women and some adult men will tell you that this is wrong, but the fact is school is war in a lot of ways. Make them understand that disrespecting you is not free. You may not be able to fight them and win, but there is always SOMETHING you can do to make things bad for them, and in war there is no such thing as a cheap shot.
Reply:Fight back.





1) Have more confidence in yourself...you can't change yourself so learn to like yourself.





2) Don't back down..you need to fight back to these people if you just hide and accept it all your life your bound to feel awful.





3) Bullys are cowards treat them that way.





You just need to stand your ground, hope this helps.
Reply:1st of all dont go sucicidle but u got to rember your going in 9th next year cause i'm a 14 year old girl and i'm in 8th so that means i'm going to 9th but w/e umm u really should tell somebody rather it's teacher grandma ma or pa you really should and if that doesnt help then move move with a family member that is not in your school district rember it's not you they have a problm wit it's there self they think they can take there troubles out on you they have low confidence so they think if they bully someone that means they thank that makes them feel better but just try wat i said i hope i helped and it's afwul to here wat ur going through
Reply:The schools where I live have a no-tolerance policy for bullying. Talk to the school counselor about what to do at school. Your parents may have to get involved here.





Then talk to your parents about your feelings of low self-esteem. There are things you can do to feel better about yourself, regardless of your looks.





Looking back on my high school days, I remember the president of the student council. He wasn't good-looking; he had the worst case of acne I've ever seen on anyone in my life. He fell asleep under the sun lamp once, and his face looked like raw meat. He came to school laughing about it.





He was also one of the friendliest, outgoing, well-liked people I've ever met. I never understood how he could be so upbeat and outgoing with a face like that, but it was all in his positive attitude toward life. I have complete confidence that you can develop a positive attitude, too, despite what you're going through now. Make it your goal, and maybe get some counseling to get started. If my friend could do it, so can you.
Reply:Well go to your principal or talk to a teacher. DO NOT think of hurting yourself. You cannot help the way you look and you should always accept who you are. You are unique. Talk to one of your favorite teachers. There are many laws prohibiting being bullied...and these laws are in act because kids might do wrongful things to themselves and it should be prevented. Trust me i was there once, and all u gotta do is stay strong and talk to someone to make it stop.
Reply:You are correct, you have low self esteem. I would first talk to my parents. They might want to send you to a psychiatrist. There is some good news..your voice should change soon. But keep something in mind....you are having a hard time now, but this is high school.....kids are mean an Love to bully, insult other kids. High school lasts for only 4 years. Life Will get better. Kids pick on other kids for the feeling of power. This goes on throughout life...learn to ignore them
Reply:Some things to remember:





-It will end eventually


-They will remember how stupid they were


-focus on ure education and let ure excellence be ure driving force


-remember that when we get old our bodies degenerate fast - but our minds dont


-When we die we dont take our bodies with us


-when waling through a crowded hall - imagine as if people were walking around and only their personality or their soul was on show - go through each person - whose ugly now?!


-Stay calm when they say those things - getting angry makes them do it more to see how far they can push u.


-Use ure intelligence as a weapon. If its a pretty cheerleader type then be sharp with ure tongue. "If putting me down is the only way u can cope with the way you look honey then by all means be my guest."


- If it's a boy and he gets violent - tell someone


- If you get called gay all the time, then it is more them reassuring themselves of their sexuality than trying to put u down. Tell them this.
Reply:You're just a youngin'. Things will get better once you get older and you mature. Just wait for that puberty to kick in.
Reply:You know what will be funny in 10 years time.. you'll be bullying them 'coz they'll be working for you. Sweet aye?








Hang in there boy! I got ya back! =D
Reply:You are being bullied because you have something everyone else wish they had.....a brain! I was in college bound classes and did well in school. The boys that were picked on in high school ended up becoming the handsome successful men later on. So, you're short. There are many short girls. Buck teeth......there are dentists/orthodontists that fix that. Ugly. I think you should reconsider that thought.You're only feeling that way because you've been beaten down. Society focuses too much on the 2% of beautiful people.Everyone's taste is different. Some girls find brainy boys sexy. Just wait till college! High voice....it'll change. Puberty my friend. Talking to your parents about how you feel woul help if they are supportive. There are counselors that could help you through this akward stage. Many kids have tough times at this age. Exercise and eating right may help your self-esteem.


One thing I think most kids regret from high school is not being kind to everyone. They realize later how much pain they may have caused. I'm sorry you're feeling as bad as you are.


Good luck!
Reply:Fix teeth, get contacts, work out.



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