Friday, July 31, 2009

Im 14 and im bullied?

Im a boy and I go to school everyday and i get bullied constantly.Im in top set for every subject. I have many features wrong me such as im short, i have buck teeth, high voice and Im ugly. My self confidence has reached rock bottom. Im just an easy target and most people take the opportunity to make my life hell. Even my best mate makes fun of me sometimes. Everyday I feel like breaking down, i dont know what to do.

Im 14 and im bullied?
tell your parents, tell your teachers


switch schools


sorry dude, kids can be so cruel.


take the high road. Do well in school and make a million dollars and get away from that stupid place and never look back.


i'm probably the most successful person in my class and don't even talk to anyone anymore from HS. Of course its been over 15 years. i didn't go to my 10 year reunion.


Later in life, I met my soulmate and glad i waited for all the good things to come.


Hang in there. Talk to someone. Switch schools if you have to. Think about going to private? Most likely less tolerance for that sort of behavior.


Worst comes to worst then homeschooling.
Reply:This is such a difficult time in a teens life and I have been through it to. Talk with a conselour about it but do realize that you are an incredible person with many gifts in life. These people will not be around you forever. I know this may seem hard to do but ignoring them is the best thing to do. Even though it may bother you to the core, you need to show these people that it doesn't. That's why you need other trust worthy people in your life to vent to.





As everything in life, this to will pass. I wish you the best of luck and stay strong. It will make you a better person in the long run.
Reply:Just remember this:


Nerds live their life later!! You may think everyone else is having so much fun and you wish you were them, and they are but if you get good grades and actually get somewhere in life you will have more fun!! It will come later in life! good luck!!





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Reply:Honey, I wish I had a answer for you that would make all your pain go away but I don't. All I can tell you is when you become an adult things will change for you. People bully in order to make themselves feel better. Please don't allow them to make you feel bad about yourself. In a few years when you are successful they will be wishing they had spend their time studing instead of making others miserable.
Reply:switch schools and start again.
Reply:It sucks to be bullied....but the best advice i can give you is to try to ignore it...Do not let the bully see you react. Your bad reaction only gives the bully the power he needs to keep the bullying going. However, if that still is not working, then I would advise you to go to your principal, vice principal or guidance counselor and tell them what is going on. I had to tell and after i did, it stopped. You do not deserve to be made fun of and the people who are taking part in doing that to you need to know that that will not be tolerated by your school. I wish you much luck....
Reply:You could switch schools But who is to say you are not going to get bullied there? True? School is hard the subjects they teach are not hard it is the socialization that is hard. For the most part in high school the golden rule does not apply. The nicer you are to every one else the meaner they get. Have you ever heard the saying nice guys finish last?well unfortunitly this applies to high school. Have you ever seen the movie " the New Guy" it is a funny movie but in many ways it is so true. High school in a lot of ways is like prison. And it is like you have to obtain a certain amount of respect from other people to leave you alone. in your case I would say you need to at the very least get some sort of respect from your friend. Now I am not saying go to school and beat him up. I am saying is he gives you garbage about you hightfind some thing goofy about him and slam him for it. For example if his ears are big tell him at least I can turn aroiund with out slapping every one in the face with my dumbo ears. As for your bullies there is not much you can do. if you tell you are going to have to deal with these animals next week and now they are going to be pissed about how they got into trouble if they get into trouble. About the only thing you can do is to always be in eye shot of a person who is supose to be in athourity. if they get caught because they are too stupid to realize they are doing it infront of say the teacher then they have no one to plain except them self. I know it sucks but try to sit in the front row of class. ask you gym teacher for a locker where you know he has eye sight most of the time. Maybe after so long of not having you as a target they will move on to some one else. you sound like a smart guy, maybe you can find some muscle that is failing in school and you can help him not fail for the price of some protection. there is not much you can do about bullies but at least with your friends you can try and gain some sort of respect from them. but don't go to far and never ever talk about a guy's mother. Saying something like you had sex with his mother with out knowing the mother is a big mistake I tried that once and a kid that know the guys mom said you had sex with that . it was bad, lets just say I met her and she was not all that. Good luck, high school is hard you can do it.
Reply:Let the adults know what is going on. Someone needs to step in and call a halt to the bullying. You also need to learn to stand up for yourself. This takes practice. But, I can tell you the first time I did that, it was the last time anyone picked on me. Good luck.
Reply:Start working out and when you are ready start kicking some a**
Reply:....well....um...wow I'm 13 about to turn 14 listen don't think of your self ugly okay no ones perfect and by your description of your self i think your quit handsome I'm short with black hair and with squeaky annoying voice and i think I'm really pretty. With the bullying tell your mom or dad or just tell them to leave you the hell alone that's what i did when i was getting bulled


hope everything goes well ^_~
Reply:I tell you this from experience. Even if you're outweighed and untaught, start a physical fight with the next bully who bothers you (actually, you won't have to start first; since the bullies believe you wont fight back, they will push you first). Never mind what he does to you -- you won't -- try to cause him pain.





If you win or are interrupted, the school authorities, who never understand these things, will punish you, and so may your parents. If you lose, you may go home bloodied and bruised and have a great deal of explaining to do.





Neither matters anything against what you're undergoing right now. Knowing you will hit back -- and I mean HIT -- will keep the bullies in their seats.





This happened to me in 9th grade (third form?) -- and I did it against everything I had been taught by my pacifist mother. And it worked.



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