MY FRIEND IS SO GOD DAMN ANNOYING: What can I do? PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP?

Whatever you do, please don't call me racist. I'm muslim and we are one of the most discriminated races out there today, so I wouldn't be racist myself.





She was a complete nerd last year, buck teeth, braces, teeth hanging over her bottom lip, glasses. Typical nerd, dressed like in limited too and crap. We are 15 by the way.


This year, out of NOWHERE, she dresses completely ghetto. She's such a wanna-be "promiscuous" girl. She only hangs with the ghetto of the ghetto.. yes black people. Everyone talks about her and about how shes all wankster and tries to act black. She thinks shes not at all, and gets mad at me when I tell her that she is known as a trashy white girl that tries to be black. Shes overall so god damn annoying but refuses to accept the truth. Whenevr I try and talk to her I start being really mean, what should I do?

MY FRIEND IS SO GOD DAMN ANNOYING: What can I do? PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP?
Show her what you've posted about her behind her back on Answers. That should cure her of wanting to be your friend, if she has any sense at all.
Reply:maybe it's time for you two to part ways, for now
Reply:heres what you do talk to her, and get her on camera in the act, then invite her over to your house to watch it and show her how she actually looks, and acts that might help. and by the way i dont think you sound racsists, kids at my school sound like this almost everyday so your fine hun!





~Ryan
Reply:first of all i am very offended by your choice of words next you should allow her to be herself if you don't like how she acts then you have the choice not to be an associate because you are truly not her friend?!?
Reply:"Birds of a feather, flock together" Most people will judge you by the company you keep. So. if you do not want to be categorized as the person your friend has become, fly away.
Reply:She is obviously having identitiy issues. It's pretty common for your age group. Either stand by her or start distancing yourself from her.
Reply:You guys shouldnt be friends. You are too immature.





Maybe you should talk to her and find out what's wrong in her life. You would be surprised. But it sounds like you dont care what is going on at her home of is anything traumatic has happened to her lately.





She probably needs a real friend because you dont sound like one. Too superficial.





And I am not going to call you racist but I will call you a backstabber and petty.
Reply:"She only hangs with the ghetto of the ghetto.. yes black people."





so you equate ghetto with black





"tries to act black"





black = bad





yes...you are racist
Reply:Jeez o' petes. Friendships are hard to navigate when you're fifteen. Sounds like both you and your friend need to take a couple of steps back from your relationship. It's not necessary to focus and become friends with people just like yourself but maybe you need to think about how much you care for this person and whether or not it is worthwhile to put more energy into this friendship right now.





I had a friend who was extremely judgmental of my behavior and choices when I was 15 (rightly so, I was not doing what I was supposed to be doing) but she was very loyal and stuck by me while taking care of her own business. We're still friends10 years later.





Ya never know!
Reply:OBVIOUSLY YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT IT IS TO BE SOMEONES FRIEND!!!!



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